From Worldly to Worthy: Embracing Modesty as My Identity (Part one)

If you had met me years ago, you might have thought I was just another church girl—active in ministry, singing in the choir, and always present in Sunday school. From the outside, my life seemed like the perfect reflection of a Christian upbringing. But deep down, I knew something was missing.

My name is Abby, and I was born and raised in the Democratic Republic of Congo (DRC). Growing up in a family of eight children, I was the middle child, navigating my place in a bustling household. My parents, both devoted believers, made sure that church was a fundamental part of our lives. Yet, despite being immersed in faith, I had never truly encountered God for myself.

Many assume that being born into a Christian home automatically makes one a believer, but let me tell you, that is far from the truth. I lived a double life—one person at home, another in church, and yet another in the outside world. People admired me for my politeness and devotion, but they had no idea that behind closed doors, I was wrestling with choices that did not honor God.

As a teenager, I was drawn to worldly fashion, wearing short skirts and dresses, not realizing the impact of my choices. I enjoyed the attention, but deep inside, I felt an emptiness that I couldn’t explain. Then, at the age of 18, something happened that changed everything. I made the decision to accept Jesus Christ as my personal Savior, and I was baptized. But here’s the truth—it didn’t transform me overnight. While I had made a commitment, I still found myself slipping back into my old ways.

It wasn’t until I joined Shalom University in Bunia that I experienced a true turning point. I became part of "Campus pour Christ" or Life ministry (a student-led ministry), where I engaged in prayer meetings, evangelism, and worship. Slowly, my faith deepened, but I still struggled with inconsistencies.

Then, one night, alone in my room, something powerful happened. I reached my breaking point. Tired of pretending, tired of living a double life, I fell to my knees and cried out to God. "Lord, I can’t do this anymore! I want to live for You, truly and completely!"

What happened next would transform my life in ways I never imagined…

(Stay tuned for Part Two!)